Tag: relationship

I can be a lot to handle, so it’s nice to have that energy spread across multiple recipients

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It makes me less demanding of any one of them, so I’m able to stay positive and bubbly-esque to a greater degree. It also takes away my tendency to be way too serious way too quickly, and it makes plan cancellations particularly forgivable.

https://spatfarrell.com/2021/11/19/so-what-are-you-looking-for

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I’m not one to fuck with anyone’s heart or emotions

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I have a sex drive stronger than most men -– I’m probably a sex addict, just selective of who I fuck and extremely in control of myself (yea, imagine the self-restraint necessary to go years in a self-imposed banishment to sexless desert without an oasis anywhere on the horizon). Considering I rarely make a true connection with someone, I resolved that the man I’m meant to be with would eventually find me, so until that time, I was going to have the time of my life and get a lot of study and practice in the interim to best impress and spoil him with.

https://audaciousandsalaciousinstilettos.com/2021/06/06/tell-me-why

As humans, we are meant to experience variety and diversity

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Monogamy is most often equated with the “highest” form of commitment, which we deem to be marriage. However, across the majority of cultures and for many centuries, marriage (and the requisite of monogamy) has contributed to the oppression of women. Historically, once women were married they were treated as chattel and considered to be the property of their husbands. This never stopped men from fraternizing and spreading their seed, but it most definitely stripped women of their power and their voice. The expectation of monogamy is one of many tools that society subtly employs in order to disempower and dominate the feminine. Because even now in the 21st century, women are held to a different standard where fidelity is concerned. While we may not be the property of our husbands, a lot of men would like to think (and collectively still believe) that we are. This is evident in common family dynamics, such as a woman staying home to look after children while her husband has a day (or night) off to socialize. I guarantee that many more men than women in marriages are granted this luxury. This inequity is also evident in overt instances of infidelity, where a man’s transgressions are more “understandable” and “forgivable” (i.e. more socially acceptable) than a woman’s. As far as I’m concerned, a healthy relationship, one that embodies the highest form of commitment, is one in which each partner is acknowledged and honored for their sovereignty. Which brings me to a critical point – my body is my own and no one else’s. This may seem obvious but the fundamental premise of monogamy strips us of this truth. Unless I am fully, consciously monogamous from a place of desire and personal choice, I am otherwise making this choice from a place of duty or obligation and not from wanting. This takes power over my body and hands it to another, which is incredibly problematic. Especially for women who are conditioned and accustomed to relinquishing their power and authority to appease our masculine-dominant society.

https://stylemesenseless.com/2021/05/05/in-support-of-conscious-non-monogamy

Having a Master is all the things that I need and want

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It gives me purpose, structure, trust, understanding, bond. We can be months apart physically and the moment we are back together to me it is like we were never apart. My body knows his touch, I know the way he smells, what he wants and needs. He lifts me up and in almost 5 years has never once drug me down. I want to please him, to make him proud, to do anything he wants or needs.

https://amberslife575904261.wordpress.com/2021/01/05/boyfriend-vs-master

People in monogamous relationships often see their social networks shrink both because they have less time to spend with their friends but also because jealousy reduces the freedom they have to spend time with opposite sex friends or in places where they could meet other people who might threaten their relationship

I’ve been in both monogamous, open and polyamorous relationships throughout my life. I’ve always tried to make relationships that will work well for me where I am in life. I never saw every person I dated as a serious romantic possibility or thought that being in a serious relationship was necessary to spend time with someone.

https://dianaverse.com/2020/04/12/polyamory-interview-with-marie-claire

Something that our brain interprets as dangerous causes stress — in other words: adrenaline and cortisol to be released, whose functions are, among others, to interrupt all activities related to pleasure and to channel the energies in the escape or attack, according to the danger

Keywords: relations, sexual, Stress

«Imagine that you are walking through the forest singing a song, your favorite song, the one that makes you happy and gives you« good vibes ». Then, suddenly a huge bear appears, hungry and angry. What do you do? The first thing you do, in a matter of microseconds, is to stop singing; and second, escape as fast as you can and without looking back ». This is how Dr. Nicola Tartaglia, urologist, andrologist and sexual health expert starts his explanation of how stress can influence sexual intercourse.

https://www.archyde.com/the-story-of-the-bear-the-song-and-the-forest-that-explains-why-you-dont-feel-like-sex

Being Ready: Confessions of a 20-year-old Virgin

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I’ve found that being a virgin at 20 seems to warrant three types of general reactions:

  1. The nurse with wide eyes in the Sidwell Sexual Health Clinic congratulating me wildly, whilst I sat awkwardly waiting for her to give me my first pack of contraceptive pills.
  2. The immediate labelling of me as “frigid” or a “prude”, words to this day that I really fucking hate.
  3. Slight embarrassment/awkwardness, like the way people looked at me during my first game of ‘Never Have I Ever’ in Freshers’ Week, when I was the only one that didn’t drink to ‘never have I ever had sex.’

Throughout my teenage years, social prowess was defined by how many people you’d slept with, how far you’d gone, and at what age you lost your virginity. Even now, although it seems that nobody is bothered if you’re a virgin or not anymore, I find myself on automatic…

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