Category: FEED

I can be a lot to handle, so it’s nice to have that energy spread across multiple recipients

Keywords: LOVE , DATING , DATINGAPPS , FWB , HEALING , LOVE , MONOGAMY , MUSING , ONLINE , DATING , POLYAMORY , RELATIONSHIP , ROMANCE , SEX , TINDER

It makes me less demanding of any one of them, so I’m able to stay positive and bubbly-esque to a greater degree. It also takes away my tendency to be way too serious way too quickly, and it makes plan cancellations particularly forgivable.

https://spatfarrell.com/2021/11/19/so-what-are-you-looking-for

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When I was choosing the stories for Coming Soon, I wanted readers to get a taste of a wide range of characters, ones at various stages of their lives, libidos and with varied turn-ons, fetishes and needs

Keywords: How To and Tips , featured , women writers

Sexuality is so wide and varied that no single book could cover every way there is to come, so I didn’t try to be exhaustive, but I did want to reflect how women and non-binary characters approach sex and orgasm at different points in their lives. In Coming Soon, you’ll find characters with specific fetishes, such as in the opening story, “Read to Me,” about a woman who encounters a man with a voice that’s like “sex on a stick” who does indeed read to her in the most sensual, seductive way. I loved that story because it captured how words can be a turn-on, and how listening can be incredibly sexy based on the power of those words.

https://booksbywomen.org/how-i-selected-the-stories-in-coming-soon-womens-orgasm-erotica

It shouldn’t be one talk that all parties feel too awkward to really engage in

Keywords: thoughts , family , kids , parenting , relationships , sex , sexuality , teaching

It should be an ongoing topic of conversation that has just always flowed naturally. Think of it this way: if you’ve always talked to your kids about sex, you never really need to find the right time to bring it up. They’ll bring it to you.

https://kirstenevansblog.com/2021/06/22/when-to-tell-your-kids-about-the-birds-and-the-bees

In my teen years, penetrative sex started to feel like a merit badge that me and all my peers were working towards

Keywords: ask emma , love & sex , self growth , sex , sexuality

It was assumed that you would earn it before you emerged into adulthood. I romanticized adulthood, fantasizing constantly about my older self and all the things that she would do better. Sex seemed like an avenue to achieving that.

https://earthtoemma.ca/2021/06/12/what-is-my-sexuality

I’m not one to fuck with anyone’s heart or emotions

Keywords: about me , cheating , courtesan , escort , renaissance courtesan , seekingarrangement , sex therapy , sugar baby , sugar daddy

I have a sex drive stronger than most men -– I’m probably a sex addict, just selective of who I fuck and extremely in control of myself (yea, imagine the self-restraint necessary to go years in a self-imposed banishment to sexless desert without an oasis anywhere on the horizon). Considering I rarely make a true connection with someone, I resolved that the man I’m meant to be with would eventually find me, so until that time, I was going to have the time of my life and get a lot of study and practice in the interim to best impress and spoil him with.

https://audaciousandsalaciousinstilettos.com/2021/06/06/tell-me-why

Shame cannot penetrate someone who is intimately aware of their own sacredness simply from being, regardless of their actions

Keywords: shame , healing

There is power in a woman who is confident in her sexuality. There is power in a woman who loves her body as it is—organic, wild and untamed. And there is potential to change the world when women join together in refusing to shame each other, instead gently and lovingly guiding our sisters to turn their awareness inward.

https://www.caitallison.com/blog/what-a-brothel-in-johannesburg-taught-me-about-shame

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I need a much lighter touch, and guys don’t get that

Keywords: affairs , extramarital affairs , sex

So what changed? Was it his skillful fingers and tongue? Or the fact that he truly got off on pleasuring me and watching my pleasure – more than on seeking his own release? Or was it I who had changed? Have I matured, to the point where I’m ready to selfishly enjoy what feels good, without worrying about being “good”, or “performing”, or “reciprocating”?

https://disentanglingjohanna.wordpress.com/2021/05/09/i-enjoy-sex-and-yes-im-surprised

As humans, we are meant to experience variety and diversity

Keywords: lifestyle , personal updates

Monogamy is most often equated with the “highest” form of commitment, which we deem to be marriage. However, across the majority of cultures and for many centuries, marriage (and the requisite of monogamy) has contributed to the oppression of women. Historically, once women were married they were treated as chattel and considered to be the property of their husbands. This never stopped men from fraternizing and spreading their seed, but it most definitely stripped women of their power and their voice. The expectation of monogamy is one of many tools that society subtly employs in order to disempower and dominate the feminine. Because even now in the 21st century, women are held to a different standard where fidelity is concerned. While we may not be the property of our husbands, a lot of men would like to think (and collectively still believe) that we are. This is evident in common family dynamics, such as a woman staying home to look after children while her husband has a day (or night) off to socialize. I guarantee that many more men than women in marriages are granted this luxury. This inequity is also evident in overt instances of infidelity, where a man’s transgressions are more “understandable” and “forgivable” (i.e. more socially acceptable) than a woman’s. As far as I’m concerned, a healthy relationship, one that embodies the highest form of commitment, is one in which each partner is acknowledged and honored for their sovereignty. Which brings me to a critical point – my body is my own and no one else’s. This may seem obvious but the fundamental premise of monogamy strips us of this truth. Unless I am fully, consciously monogamous from a place of desire and personal choice, I am otherwise making this choice from a place of duty or obligation and not from wanting. This takes power over my body and hands it to another, which is incredibly problematic. Especially for women who are conditioned and accustomed to relinquishing their power and authority to appease our masculine-dominant society.

https://stylemesenseless.com/2021/05/05/in-support-of-conscious-non-monogamy

Our whole economy is set up so that we can’t survive without making ourselves, at some level, into useful functions, and yet the prospect that this makes us less human does not keep us up at night – we still recognise ourselves, and even others, as more than what we do to put bread on the table

Keywords: purityculture , sexuality , womanhood

I don’t have an answer. I want very much to believe that the separation of body and self, sexuality and personhood, is simply a hangover from neo-platonism. That I can be a woman and a person. On the other hand, I know what it is to feel used, and I know what it is to feel utterly objectified by a violent and painful experience: to feel a rupture between body and being, the sense that one’s personal self has died, leaving only a “fuck-hole” behind.

https://mewsingsofakuriouskat.wordpress.com/2021/04/26/are-we-human-or-are-we-woman