I need a much lighter touch, and guys don’t get that

Keywords: affairs , extramarital affairs , sex

So what changed? Was it his skillful fingers and tongue? Or the fact that he truly got off on pleasuring me and watching my pleasure – more than on seeking his own release? Or was it I who had changed? Have I matured, to the point where I’m ready to selfishly enjoy what feels good, without worrying about being “good”, or “performing”, or “reciprocating”?

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