Tinder, STDs & FWB

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Melissa Gravel's avatara catalog of online dating

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I am unimpressed with myself while I write this blog, but since I am documenting my online-dating journey, I wanted to be transparent throughout the entire process.

A couple weeks ago I had a conversation with a friend about idea of becoming friends-with-benefits. This wasn’t a new conversation, the topic actually came up two years ago in a similar forum, in which I responded by vomiting (quite literally). I left his house in the middle of the night and threw up into a plastic grocery bag I found in my car. Through my early adulthood and into my twenties I treated my body almost as if it was sacred. I didn’t fuck around on the first date, I wasn’t taking my clothes off for someone I wasn’t in love with, I had standards and a mindset that sex was to be held for someone special.

Over the pastcouple years my…

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Sex in New York City Parks?

In a wild, overrun corner of Fort Tryon Park, a secluded area had become a popular destination for those seeking clandestine, casual sex.

The spot became so notorious that it also drew attention from the police: In some years, officers patrolling the park, in Upper Manhattan, would issue public-sex summonses about once a week.

But last year, not a single public-sex summons was handed out.

A similar pattern holds true across New York City. Officers wrote 432 tickets in 2007 for what is referred to as “sex in park,” according to Police Department data. Last year, through late December, they wrote six.

Not only are summonses down, but fewer New Yorkers are calling 311 to lodge complaints about lewd acts in public. In 2013, there were 483 complaints of lewd acts; last year, there were 283, according to the city.

The decline has been so precipitous that it raises obvious questions: Are the police telling frisky parkgoers simply to move along, or have New Yorkers lost some of their lust? Is it the Police Department that has changed, or is it us?

Netflix & Chill | How it can help your marriage!

Couples therapy, Green grass, Helping your marriage, Marriage, Netflix and chill

Erica Hermosillo AI Creator's avatarErica Hermosillo


Written by: Erica Hermosillo

Netflix and chill, well it’s been sung around the world for a while, we all know what it means. It means your gonna put on a movie and get some lovin. For some, this may not be romantic enough. Well let me tell you as a person who has been married 10 years in a strong and healthy relationship, romance for every occasion is for fairy tales. When you have been with a person for a decade or longer sex isn’t always easy to get to do. Planning dates every week is not a realistic idea for people who, like me, live paycheck to paycheck.

Making Time for Each Other



There are so many things that get in the way of you being with your spouse. Kids, jobs, everyday stress, and just plain exhaustion. So purposely planning a night, or two, or three, out of your…

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System X: Rape and Sexual Assault

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deepthoughtnews's avatarDeepThought News

Any interface to the human body which begins to control/stimulate the sexual centres without consent will fall foul of the law around the areas of rape and sexual assault.  System X, in its attempts to develop stealth/infiltration version of the ‘Nobody’ exosuit also attempts to control/stimulate the genitals.  The purpose of which is to complete the replication of human behaviour, however, that does not excuse staff from the law.

This is not the only area where System X runs foul of the law, System X is also known for using controlled brain damage to socially engineer sexual encounters that can be leveraged to further isolate targets.  This extends to both children and adults.  This can be anything from a child with low impulse control whose actions cause splits within families, to partners who have their sexual centres stimulated, driving them into affairs and ultimately separation with the target.

What you…

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Is Objectification the Problem?

gender equality , objectification

Rodger R Ricketts, Psy.D.'s avatarWe are all Interconnected even with the Universe

sexual-objectificationIs Objectification the Problem?

Since the beginning of the second-wave feminist movement in the 1960s, strident complaints have been made regarding men’s sexual objectification of women. The foundation of this complaint was, and is, that when men objectify women sexually they see and treat them as sex objects. This line of thinking suggests that reducing women to sexual objects results in their dehumanization, which not only creates but also perpetuates men’s abusive and harassing behavior toward women. Women have been demanding that men view them in a more comprehensive, respectful, and humanized manner. Sadly, despite the call to action by feminists and the recent #MeToo Movement for the end of sexual harassment and sexual abuse, the response from many men has been nothing short of abysmal.
The fact that some men dehumanize and exploit women through sexual objectification is real and this behavior needs to be addressed. However, to fully…

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