Category: society

Our whole economy is set up so that we can’t survive without making ourselves, at some level, into useful functions, and yet the prospect that this makes us less human does not keep us up at night – we still recognise ourselves, and even others, as more than what we do to put bread on the table

Keywords: purityculture , sexuality , womanhood

I don’t have an answer. I want very much to believe that the separation of body and self, sexuality and personhood, is simply a hangover from neo-platonism. That I can be a woman and a person. On the other hand, I know what it is to feel used, and I know what it is to feel utterly objectified by a violent and painful experience: to feel a rupture between body and being, the sense that one’s personal self has died, leaving only a “fuck-hole” behind.

https://mewsingsofakuriouskat.wordpress.com/2021/04/26/are-we-human-or-are-we-woman

I am still very upset with myself that I didn’t follow through with turning my uncle in

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The expectations the law holds for what a minor should be able to say in front of not only the accused, and Judge, but whoever chooses to be in the courtroom is ridiculous. I didn’t follow through with it because it would have been incredibly difficult. They put a woman from C.A.P.S.E.A. on my case to work with me and try to prepare me for court. First off how can I feel comfortable with a lady who wasn’t even able to give me her real name? I understand the reasoning now, but back then the trust was already gone. Then they tried to get me to talk about what happened, but when I would explain I was told that words like “privates parts” wasn’t good enough. I had to be scientific? I was 5, a victim of sexual assault and they wanted me to be OK with throwing around words like “Penis” and “Vagina’? They wanted me to be very detailed about what he was doing with his hands, and what he was saying and what I had to do? SERIOUSLY! come on!

https://not-my-secret.com/?p=134

Complex species like us don’t have the full control of our body

Keywords: observations , thoughts , human , men , polygamous , polygamy

[The reason why male species are genetically polygamous is] because it’s embedded in our DNA at the very first day we landed or live or exist on Earth. The goal is simple, and that is to procreate to evolve and to survive. That’s why we see male species have multiple hetero partners in his life. It could be one at a time or simultaneously because their DNA dictates the ancient goal.

https://deargino.wordpress.com/2020/08/30/men-are-polygamous-by-nature

No matter the specific type I’m going to share some food for thought if you’re thinking of sugarbabying in any context in the future

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Sugar babying isn’t for everyone, so don’t force yourself to like it! Always feel like you’re able to stop, even after meeting someone. You have the right to end an arrangement for whatever reason, don’t let anyone manipulate you to think otherwise. YOU DON’T OWE ANYONE SHIT. Demand respect for your boundaries and if that is not given then it looks like it’s time to Block That Number.

https://sexpositivesafety.wordpress.com/2020/08/22/so-you-want-to-be-a-sugar-baby

The training has been a firehose of information on local resources, on understanding sexual assault trauma, on common myths and misconceptions about sexual assault and rape, and on active listening and reflecting skills (to name a few topics)

Keywords: volunteer , advocate

This is a volunteer position, and once you are a part of the advocate team, you are required to take at least one 24-hour shift each month where you have the crisis phone on you at all times. You are on-call, answering the phone when someone calls the rape crisis hotline.

https://waytobe.wordpress.com/2020/07/16/sexual-assault-victim-advocate-training

People in monogamous relationships often see their social networks shrink both because they have less time to spend with their friends but also because jealousy reduces the freedom they have to spend time with opposite sex friends or in places where they could meet other people who might threaten their relationship

I’ve been in both monogamous, open and polyamorous relationships throughout my life. I’ve always tried to make relationships that will work well for me where I am in life. I never saw every person I dated as a serious romantic possibility or thought that being in a serious relationship was necessary to spend time with someone.

https://dianaverse.com/2020/04/12/polyamory-interview-with-marie-claire

India & sex!

India, IndianCulture, Kamasutra, MoralPolicing, Sex

Meera Mokashi's avatarWild Blossom

For one of the most ancient civilisations like ours, we have unfortunately come from being the most accepting and open society to being one of the most controlling one. Here I put up my thoughts in this regards, and as the title suggests I am going to be talking about sex so the language is going to be fucking crazy!

Artworkat Khajuraho built between 950 AD and 1050 AD

When an Indian says ‘our culture is so “pure” that even our national bird peacock gets pregnant by drinking the tears of male peacock’, you got to believe him right? I mean what do 1.37 billion people know about reproduction that such geniuses have to promote “purity” of Indian culture.

What is culture?

Culture, in my opinion, cannot be defined in rigid terms. It is nothing but the representative ideology derived from the actual lives of the population. In…

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The Girl Who Cried Fuckboy

millennial, relationships, sex, twenties, young

theneedymillennial's avatarThe Needy Millennial

Aliens! I am back again, and this time I didn’t wait two weeks. Although, now that I think about it, you may not mind, since I am sure a lot of people (ladies, I’m looking at you) are used to waiting muchhh longer for a response anyway from all the FUCKBOYS am I right!?!? WRONG. Because there is no such thing. Yep, I said it.

The elusive fuckboy, player, whatever snap backed Huff socks vape pen breed you think is the deadliest mammal to ever walk the Earth- yeah, they are extinct. If they ever really existed in the first place. And before you get pissed and think I am about to start defending Paradise Blake ( I mean, not the worst guy in the world) I first want to say; I’m a feminist. I swear it! And as a feminist, believe me when I say I have your best…

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